Tuesday, March 24, 2009

My Story


I had dated, let's call her Diane, for about a year and a half – until I broke up with her ... suddenly and with no warning.


Why?

There were a couple of reasons.

First, I was twice divorced and scared to death I was making the same mistake that I had with my second wife – that I had fallen into a relationship too quickly just because it felt so good after a really bad marriage.

Second, as hard as this is for me to admit, I was feeling the grass might be greener somewhere else.

My big mistake

Diane eventually agreed to start seeing me again but it was never the same. The mistake I made was to give her all the power. I was just too anxious to reconnect. I was needy and desperate and ready to accept any crumbs.

In short, I was an idiot.


T
ortured by past memories

I finally ended it totally. It was just too painful to continue.

I grieved for nearly a year over the loss of our relationship.

Is this you?

Maybe you know how I felt. How I kept the radio off because there were too many songs that reminded me of my ex.

How I was constantly checking email and voice mail to see if my ex had called.

How I was not going out because I was afraid to miss a call.

Worst of all, I spent endless hours rehashing what I should have done and rehearsing what I might say if I were to bump into her.

Why I wish this book had been available

It was too late to get Diane back when I discovered a book titled “The Magic of Making Up, How to Get Your Ex Back.”

I have no doubt it could have saved the relationship. It taught me all the things I had done wrong and what I should have done right.

Here are just a few of things I learned from 'The Magic of Making Up"
  • I learned that most relationships can be salvaged. You may find it difficult to believe that almost every break up for whatever reason can be fixed.

  • How to tell if your ex still cares. There are strong clues your ex leaves that says you still have a special place in his or her heart…and there's only one thing you need to look for. This advice alone almost made it worth buying the book.

  • Exactly what to say and what to do to get your ex back on a date. The author says this has worked hundreds if not thousands of times.

  • The Instant Reconnect Technique – a sort of "psychological judo" that will trick your ex lover's mind into thinking you are still together.

  • That there's a bonding secret so powerful is it is literally relationship magic. It is undetectable, unnoticeable and 99.99% of the human population can not defend against it.
A word of warning

At this point, I must warn you … strongly warn you…the advice and methods you will find in “The Magic of Making Up” are very unconventional.

This is because the book was not written by a trained therapist or counselor.

It was written by an Arkansas county boy named T. W. Jackson, or T. Dub as he likes to be called.

T. Dub was a military brat and in the military himself. He lived in dozens of homes…in 11 countries... and lived-long term in 5 states in the U.S.

The thing is, he got a ton of practice keeping relationships together…and putting them back together after they had come apart…because the divorce rate for military couples is so much higher than average.

And he's poured all this experience into “The Magic of Making Up.”

Here's his guarantee

OK, so maybe you're like I was – thinking what the heck can I learn from T. Dub who isn't even a licensed therapist?

What sold me was his guarantee.

He says that if you buy “The Magic Of Making Up” and are not back together with your ex within 60 days…or you are not absolutely delighted for any reason…he will give you a prompt and courteous refund.

So what the heck do you have to lose?

I strongly urge you ...

I STRONGLY urge you to click on this link and go learn more about "The magic of Making Up" because just imagine what it would be like if you could ...
  • Listen to music again without being tortured by past memories
  • Go about your day with a light heart
  • Get your appetite back
  • Sleep restfully again
  • Get back to planning for the future instead of living in the past
You have nothing to lose and the most important thing in the world to gain … your ex back.

PS: The stuff that T Dub teaches doesn't just work.

It may work too well.
click here now to learn why ..

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

How to get an ex boyfriend back

It was very painful when he told you it was over. You were confused, angry, sad, ready to strike back.

But when you have calmed down, you find you do miss him. You find yourself engaged in long, rambling conversations with yourself asking questions like,what did I do, was it my fault and what could I have done differently? And most importantly - what can I do to get him back?

The good news is that there are things you can do to win him back.

A word of warning

Before you do anything elss, you need to take a good look at yourself and your actions. Are you acting overly anxious? Are you acting inappropriately – calling, emailing or texting too often so that you look desperate or clingy. Are you trying to lay a guilt trip on him?

You need to be careful because acting like this can just drive him further away.
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A strategy to follow

After you've taken a good look at yourself - if you've found you've been acting appropriately, the next step is to break off all contact for awhile - maybe even several weeks. Remember the old saying, “how can I miss you if you won't go away.”

Then, instead of focusing entirely on your ex boyfriend, you can focus on yourself. Think how you can make your own life better. Spend time with friends. Dig into a new hobby. This will be a difficult and challenging time and will require a great deal of self discipline on your part.

Work with human nature and not against it

Keep reminding yourself that the key to this strategy is to work with human nature and not against it

When you do reestablish contact, don't appear to be desperate or anxious. Think about how things were at the beginning of the relationship and why he fell in love with you in the first place. When you do see him again – try to emphasize those traits that attracted him to you. Was it your honesty, your sense of humor, the way you responded to his needs? Whatever it was, try to act the same way – and show him the same person – that first attracted him to you.

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Play a little hard to get

If he starts to show an interest in restoring the relationship, relax and take it easy. Play a little hard to get - but not too hard to get. Does he want to see you next Saturday? Sorry, you already have plans – and don't tell him what they are. It's none of his business at this point. But you could see him maybe a week from Saturday.

Restore that “balance of power”

Keep yourself a little distant and implement these basic strategies. This can help you restore a “balance of power” in the relationship. Plus, you will have given your ex time to remember why he loved you to begin with. Be sure to let him make the first move. Do all this and chances are, you will rescue the relationship. And then you can stop asking "What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back"

A fast, easy solution

If you are in pain and confused, think about this. Couples reunite every day regardless of the situation!

The secret is a system called The Magic of Making Up!.At this point, I must WARN YOU…STRONGLY WARN YOU…the advice and methods taught in this system are VERY unconventional. But if you follow the teachings in this course, the next thing you know... he'll be back home, laying back on the couch and watching LOST with you.

I know this sounds outrageous, but the guy who teaches this course guarantees results. He says if you are not back together with your ex within 60 days…or you are not absolutely delighted for any reason…You will receive a prompt and courteous refund." Be sure to go and check out The Magic of Making Up!.RIGHT NOW and start winning back that ex boyfriend.

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Get Back An Ex

You've been dumped.

Doesn't feel very good, does it? In fact, it hurts like all get out.

You sit around with a sick feeling in the pit of your stomach and an empty feeling in your heart.

So what do you do?

You get back your ex.

That's right. You can get get back an ex.

You won't believe this - probably - but the first step is to tell your ex that you agree with the break-up ... that it's really the best thing for the both of you.

You think that sounds crazy?

Wait till you read the rest of the story. It's all in a guaranteed, no-risk course called The Magic of Making Up.

Just imagine how much better you would feel - and how much better life would be - with that ex back in your life. Think how good it would be to wake up next to him or her ... to talk about all those good times you shared ... to plan for a future together.

You don't have to just imagine it. You can make it happen. But don't take my word for it. Click on this link to learn all about The Magic of Making Up.

The course is guaranteed to work. I mean, think about it. A course guaranteed to help you win back that ex -- in no time at all.

Be sure to click on thie link to discover for your self The Joy and Magic of Making Up